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I didn’t come from money. Not even close.
And I never had a role model who could show me what it looks like when wealth and love actually coexist.
The world I grew up in made one thing clear: rich people were mean. Cold. Distant.
I didn’t even know there was a difference between being rich and being wealthy.
But as I started scaling up in my career…
As I became a business owner…
As I stepped into my calling as a spiritual business owner…
Something didn’t sit right.
I kept feeling this internal tension around money.
Even when I hit my goals—even when I raised them and hit those too—
There was always a point where I would just drop back down.
Self-sabotage dressed up as spiritual surrender.
A mentor once told me:
“You have a conflict—you don’t care about money, but you love money.”
That landed. Hard.
And then, one day, my spiritual guides asked me something I wasn’t ready for:
Why do you want to be wealthy?
I didn’t have an answer. Not at first.
But I had learned this much already:
Being rich is about what’s visible—cars, houses, optics.
Being wealthy is about what’s invisible—time, peace, sovereignty, sustainability, options.
So when they asked me, I searched deeper.
And what came up changed everything:
“I want to be wealthy so I can reverse an internal split So I can heal myself and experience that love and wealth coexistence. So I can become a clear channel for love— And use wealth to deliver healing and love.”
It was that simple. And that sacred.
I realized I had been surviving on upgraded terms.
Yes, I worked from home.
Yes, I had freedom my parents could only dream of.
But the mindset?
Still survival.
Still pressure.
Still inherited fear.
And that’s when it hit me:
Every time I gave up… Every time I held back… Every time I ignored the dream, downsized the vision, dropped the goal— I wasn’t being humble. I was being disrespectful. Disrespectful to God. Disrespectful to my parents and all the sacrifices they’ve made with pure and unconditional love. Disrespectful to love itself.
Because here’s the truth:
God didn’t create us to live in lack.
God created us to remember abundance.
To accept the wealth of love, and channel it through everything we touch.
So the moment I withhold my light…
When I refuse to receive…
When I doubt the gifts I’ve been given…
I’m not just hurting myself.
I’m cutting off the love that wants to flow through me.
That’s when the message dropped in:
To give up wealth is to give up love.
This isn’t just about money.
It’s about what you do with your life.
Your creativity.
Your service.
Your wisdom.
Your capacity to nourish others.
Every time you pass that forward—whether it’s through a donation, a meal, a healing, a lesson, a truth—you’re giving love.
Every time you reject wealth—whether it’s an opportunity, support, or belief in your own gifts—you’re refusing love.
So here’s the reminder I came to deliver:
Be a messenger of love. Accept love. Accept wealth. Use it to deliver even more love. And send it forward to light up dark places….
That’s what we’re here for.
That’s what Reverse the Split is really about.
Not just healing the past—
But honoring it.
By becoming the future it prayed for.
My invitation to you is this:
As part of your spiritual wealth journey, reflect on how you can be a messenger of love—in the way you receive, hold, and share your wealth and your gifts with the world?
Once you find your answer, become that messenger.
And if you ever need help uncovering it, you’re always welcome to reach out.
I’ll gladly show you the path to Reverse the Split.
